We always have a choice. We can (and should) get rid of things that no longer serve us, instead of carrying extra weight around and keep stuff just for the sake of not paying attention to what’s already “there”.
But as everything else in life, to accomplish something, conscious intention is required. A decision to pause and ask yourself: how is this serving me? Many of the stuff we keep, mostly happen because we don’t give it proper attention as it shows up in our world. According to many organizers experts, you should touch things just once and right there make a decision: keep it, or don’t: donate, throw it out / get rid of it or exchange/ bring it back – obviously you don’t want it and all these categories just justify how you feel about disposing it. The one rule to keep something is to truly love it. According to Marie Kondo, it must spark joy or you will be just moving it around until you’re ready to face the truth and (finally) bless & release it.
It sounds simple when we refer to stuff. However there is much more on the table… and involved in this. We are talking about people, behaviors, old beliefs, attitude, habits, self-pity, lifestyle, whatever it is. It all involves a decision to change, to let go of what no longer fits you (or has never done) to finally face it and deal with it. It may sound harsh but it’s about it. Not doing or dealing with it is pure waste: of money, time, life, you name it.
Staying in a relationship that is no longer working is a waste of life. Pretending everything is OK when both know it’s not and you have already tried whatever it is and didn’t work. No one is supposed to sacrifice. Be with someone is a daily choice. Nobody “has to put up with someone else’s lack of maturity”. Stop, be an adult, you know it’s time to face it. Just do it.
What about those old ways of being!? Are you happy with your life, your results, your health, your finances, work, relationships !? It’s all a reflection of what’s going on inside, 100%. We attract what we are. We’re actually like a magnet, whatever frequency we operate from, we’re bringing to us all the same. Focusing on what you don’t want will bring you more of the same.
End of the year is a great opportunity to get rid of old calendars, planners and scheduler. How about we add a few more things into that bulk and leave it all behind – make it history -and stop talking about it!?
Let’s make room for the NEW and choose intentionally what you want.
A few questions will guide you and help you build your wish list. But there’s a couple of rules… 1. Believe it is possible and that writing it down, will speed up bringing them up to your reality. 2. No if’s, buts, once this or that ( and don’t wants are prohibited!). Seriously imagine for a second that whatever burning desire you entertain in your mind and think of in details, there’s a gene of the lamp responding:”Your wish is my command” as in magic… wouldn’t you want to add a zero to the financial goal? Another room to the dream home? Be a bit more specific into describing your ideal work, or life partner!?
The big problem we have is that we were conditioned to accept whatever, because most of us grew up in a scarcity mentality, but that is not what God intended for us, but to enjoy, to experience things, to be, to have and to be witness of His abundance and prosperity – an exaggeration of magnificence.
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord: “plans to prosper you, not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future”
Jeremiah 29:11
Light a candle, or use some essential oil in a diffuser, play some ambience music and take the time to give in to your imagination and allow it to manifest beautiful things you desire, journaling into these prompts / questions…
What would I love to happen in 2022?
Wouldn’t be wonderful that this year….
Where would I love to have accomplished this new year?
my brand new perfect life and the most wonderful lifestyle I deserve is now my new reality… I live… I work… I shop… I get up… I create…
I can’t believe all these things happened at work / my business…so fast!
What a miracle to live a relationship like this…
I absolutely love living in my dream home
My finances have quantum leaped and I am living a dream, with luxury, abundance and prosperity. I feel wonderful in every purchase I make, …
I absolutely love the way I look, my body, mind and spirit are in sync and beautifully expressing my truth, living a happy, meaningful and fulfilling life, helping others by ….
I show up as my most divine self every single day, as my best version, to my family, loved ones, friends, clients, prospects. I am loved, respected, admired, beautiful, powerful, limitless. I feel blessed, guided and inspired!
I am a divine expression of God and am here for an amazing mission I’m enthused and honored with this opportunity. So grateful for all the lessons and blessing propelling me forward in this perfect journey I call my most perfect life.
Keep the pen moving, the fingers typing, the voice dictating, whatever your style is. Put energy into this and allow it to come to fruition. You deserve it!
Remember to forget the old, rusty luggage behind, together with all the bad stuff. Enter into 2022 with Faith in the knowing that “ Your desire is God working through you” – Robert A Russell
Happy Clean Slate! Make it beautiful, shine, colorful, just the way you want!
Decide that 2022 is a Very Happy New Year, no matter what !
Cheers to a wonderful opportunity to make it right, and to love it ❤️!!!
Sheyla
