Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.

There are so many things in life that we can count on people’s help and we often should. However, there are a few things that only we can do for ourselves: eat, exercise, go to the bathroom, learn, experience things like dancing in the rain, the first kiss, love, among so many other indescribable moments.

Sure someone can cook the meal and even assist us in the process, but the act of eating is our own job. The same works for exercising, you can go to the gym, follow someone’s program on social media, but you have to put your body into the motions to exercise. Learning is another one, there are tons of tools, methodologies and content available, but the act of learning is your own and no one else can do it for you. The same works for changing your life. There are external forces and many times environmental triggers that can somehow impact or even “motivate” us to the process, but if we decide to stay as we are, change won’t happen.

The changing process starts the very moment you make a decision to do so. Many say that the Universe starts conspiring for your wish to come true and it often happens once your mind is aligned and congruent with the idea. Many watched “The Secret” movie a decade ago or so and thought it was too much… Perhaps…

There are intrinsic forces behind somethings that are invisible to our eyes, but real. A thought impact our feelings, which impact our behavior, which affect our habits and change the outcome of our results. So the mindset to change something, if taken serious can actually have some kind of “magic power”. However, like putting the raw food on the top of the stove and expect it to be cooked by itself, to finally make something happen, an action needs to take place.

This is one of those things that only you can do if you truly want to change your life!

How many times we put ourselves in front of the person we can become and instead of having empowering thoughts and taking actions, we allow negative thinking to take over… Because our feelings’ triggers start at our thought level and impulsion our actions, guess what happens? Nothing.

T H O U G H T S -> F E E L I N G S -> R E S U L T S

However we all have gone through situations, called defining moments, where something happened in such a powerful way that has shifted our modus operandi to a whole different level. It is like a wake up call, which make us see the world with different lenses. Almost like life was black and white and after that become colorful and even the minimum details are noticed.

I’ve learned that when we don’t want something we will find an excuse. But when we truly want something: we will find time, we will find a way, we will find money. If it is important to us, we will make it happen.

Because of the free will, we will always have a choice and obviously have to deal with the consequences of it. One way or another it is our responsibility.

While we still live in Wander land, life doesn’t happen, we are just going through the motions. Often living and working on somebody else’s schedule and agenda. Sad. We are presented tons of opportunities throughout our lifetime, and it is always up to us what to do about it. Like receiving an invitation to a party. There will always be pos and cons, but the choice is ours. They say that when you knock the door of opportunity, work answers. It is up to you what to do, and you know it.

God gave us today to do whatever we want with it. That is why it is called PRESENT. It is truly a privilege to be here. We can’t live in the past, actually thinking too much about it, bring us depression. We can’t live in the future, and again spending too much time there, bring us anxiety. Here and now is the only time we’ve got to do, be, become, make a difference or none of the above. I invite you to experience your presence on this planet in a whole different level, if you will and to Live Fully Today!